For Delhi Metro Riders: How Old is ‘seat-worthy old’? | Riding the Delhi Metro

sharing real experiences when riding the delhi metro line
During my many sojourns in the
Delhi Metro, I have realized one thing: no matter how much Delhiites are ridiculed, they have some degree of respect towards the elderly. One thriving example of this is the fact that men and women of all ages are more than forthcoming when it comes to vacating their seats for an elderly person. However, from a personal perspective, this trend confuses me, besides making me feel good about my city. For starters, apart from the folks who are extremely old and look weathered and worn-out, how do I always know about vacating my seat?

I don’t want to offer my precious, hard-fought seat to just about anyone who has a few more grey hairs than me or someone who just looks old, someone who has a congenital condition that causes too much wrinkling. I want to offer my seat to only those who are truly elderly, and for me, this demarcation starts at the age of 60 years. Anyone below this landmark should be able to sustain their body weight on his/her two legs. This creates quite a predicament. It isn’t always easy to determine the right age of a person. If you have read my earlier posts, you will realize that there are quite a few fakers on the Delhi Metro. How do I differentiate the actually aged from the just-tired, middle-aged, and exasperated, and just malnourished souls? How do I absolve myself of the guilt of occupying the seat when someone with an actual age-induced medical condition stands right next to me? 

Can people be trusted to disclose their real age? 

Should my criteria be just the age of the person, or am I supposed to calculate the overall health status of an individual by merely looking at them? The bottom line is that all this requires too much thinking, and my sole motive after gaining a seat on the Metro is closing my eyes and getting my breathing pattern right. Call it being stupid or pretentiously worried, but the fact remains that this is how my mind functions. I am a thinker by constitution, not by choice. 

Updated on January 24, 2018:

Though I am not riding the Delhi Metro regularly these days, I keep hearing interesting bits from regular commuters like my sister-in-law. The horror stories about seat-grabbing still hold true. People, especially women, faking impaired body movements or sighing with their head held upwards, supposedly towards God, are on the rise. People riding to the shortest destinations do this with shocking ease. The act is easier to pull if there is a child involved or if you have some grey hairs. This applies to misusing the seats reserved for the differently-abled, too.

The Actresses are Revealed | Riding the Delhi Metro

people faking bad health in delhi metro
This happened to me when I was naive about the ways of the Delhi Metro. I was comfortably seated in the General, non-Ladies section as the next stop approached. A fair lady, in her mid-30s, approached me. She had body language that suggested that she couldn't take "No" for an answer. However, I did not mind seeing her in the eye and not moving from my seat. There is nothing wrong with holding on to your seat when the Delhi Metro offers a dedicated ladies' compartment and reserved seats. As a man and a paying customer, there is nothing wrong with me when I want to seek some comfort for my workplace-tortured, aching legs and bum.

Realizing that she was not going to get any pity from me, the lady changed her game-something I realized much later. She turned from looking dominant to downright doormat submissive. She contorted her face in the most odd way and started panting so heavily that it would have made a Dalmatian proud. Now, her game proceeded to the next level. Within a few minutes of engaging my attention with her eyes and standing close to me, she leaned towards me, her pitiful expressions intact, and told me she was very tired from running around. Not realizing her ulterior motives at that time, I instantly offered her the seat. Was this a smart thing to do? Hell NO!!

Only a few seconds into "my" seat, and the lady looked as refreshed as the first roses of autumn. She was in her element, making phone calls and shouting without any worry for how she was damaging the peace of the entire coach. The panting had vanished, the non-existent sweat had dried up, and she was as energetic as a hyperactive teenager, often engaging in conversation with those around her, too. I was shocked to realize that the lady had used her femininity and manipulative acting skills just to screw me out of the seat. The biggest shocker was yet to come. She got done just five stations later! Just imagine what people are capable of doing for a mere 10 minutes of seated comfort. Seriously, I am too naive about the ways of the world, too!!

Metro: The Last, Save Haven for Women in the City?

short discussion using delhi metro
This might sound shocking to some of you, but to me it makes perfect sense. The recent wave of anguish and helplessness among people and their attempts to protect the women of Delhi got me started thinking if there was a place that could be considered safe within the capital region. Come to think of it, women have been groped, molested, raped, and murdered within their homes, offices, public parks, and upmarket hang-outs. What does this suggest? Firstly, we, as a city, should stop priding ourselves on living in the capital of India. A city that has its soul bloodied with women and minor girls on an everyday basis just cannot be projected as the seat of political or financial might. On that note, I would also like to add that we, as a nation, shouldn't be too gung-ho about Democracy.

We have manipulated and shamed every constitutional right, and a country that cannot even respect its soldiers should keep its mouth shut and not roar about being the biggest Democracy. Coming back to this discussion, it emerged that the Delhi Metro was perhaps the only place in the city that can be officially termed "safe" for women, i.e., the front bogie reserved for female commuters. The story can take an ugly turn in the general bogies, but so far, the Metro has managed a reasonably impressive record. Thanks to the combined strength of fellow women passengers, absence of threats (men) and strict penalties on those who try to force their way in with the typical, 'Chalta Hai' attitude, the women's bogie of the Delhi Metro is at least one spot in the city where a lady can be forgiven for thinking that she is living in the capital of a behemoth, billion-people nation. 

Updated on January 29th, 2018

Just saw the brave women and men recognized for their courage at the 26th January parade in New Delhi. Just makes me wonder that if half of us started fighting back, the entire mob of idiots who assume us for ready victims, break the law jokingly, and scoff at the system that rules us, things would be a lot better. When you see a woman being harassed at work or in public transit, do you try to get involved or at least try to polarize others towards the event so that someone can intervene and save the day? There are superheroes; we have to look out for each other...this is not some emotionally-ridden thought for the day, but the sad reality that we just don't accept.

Metro Service Updates Missing: How About Express Services?

Riding Delhi Metro | Express Line Opinion
The Metro continues to serve the city without grudges or any discrimination. Its services have been diversified and amplified to ensure that Delhi Metro riders are further comforted. However, something is missing in all that is being planned for the Delhi Metro. I have a recommendation, and I guess it does make some serious sense. There are a lot of folks like me who use the Metro for traveling daily, from the city to the NCR.

Luxury-class ticketed, higher-fare express route services make sense

Despite the great connectivity, the sheer volume of passengers and the interchange takes a serious toll on the comfort factor, often leaving the commuters gasping for breath. I want to propose an Express Line. This service could be run just three or four times a day from major city pick-up locations, straight to the NCR drop points without stopping in between. Such a service cannot be run during the high-traffic hours. It would only be feasible towards the earliest of hours when the Delhi Metro commences its services for the day, and maybe just once or twice more during the course of the day. Once the daily NCR commuters know of such a service, they and their workplaces would ensure that it is used to their benefit. The Metro, too, can benefit from it by charging a premium amount for an exclusive service.