What started as a means to express my observations when riding the Delhi Metro is now about maintaining a not-so-personal diary about the "everyday" Life! Expect a lot of opinions, a love for the unusual, and the tendency to blog on-the-go, unfiltered, with bias, and ALWAYS with a cup of chai...[and some AI]
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A Germophobic, You Used Bathroom Towels By Mistake – How to Redeem Your Sanitization Now?
Why the Wrong Towel Feels Like a Catastrophe
At the heart of germophobia is not dirt itself but the idea of contamination. Psychologists note that the fear is often “magical” rather than scientific. If someone with OCD touches a doorknob, their anxiety spikes not because they logically believe the knob is dripping with anthrax but because their brain treats it as inherently “dirty.” Once contact is made, contamination feels permanent, spreading from finger to arm to entire body. The same happens with towels. A shared towel feels like a sponge of invisible fluids: sweat, saliva, bacteria. The germophobic brain doesn’t pause to calculate risk; it floods with alarm. This explains why such episodes provoke more distress than genuine exposure events like touching money or sitting on a subway seat. The bathroom is coded as a “contamination zone,” so a towel linked to it feels catastrophic. Researchers call this thought-action fusion. The belief is that touching something “dirty” automatically makes one dirty, regardless of context. A split-second mistake becomes a crisis of identity: “I am no longer clean.” This inner rupture explains why such a small error spirals into panic for the germophobic.Science of Towels and Germs — What Really Happens?
Now for the less emotional, more biological side. Are towels really that dangerous? Research suggests that bathroom towels can indeed harbor bacteria if they are damp and reused often. A study from the University of Arizona found that nearly 90% of bathroom hand towels carried coliform bacteria, and 14% had E. coli. Towels left in humid bathrooms become breeding grounds, especially if not washed frequently. But here’s the nuance: for a healthy individual, the risk of infection is minimal. Your skin is not a passive sponge; it is an organ with layers of protection, oils, and immune defenses. Most bacteria on towels are the same microbes already present on your skin. Unless the towel has come into direct contact with bodily fluids or someone with an infectious condition, the likelihood of catching an illness is exceedingly low. The gulf between perceived and actual risk is massive. The germophobic brain inflates risk until the towel feels like a biohazard. In reality, a shower after accidental use or even a rinse with soap suffices. Science reassures; psychology resists. This is why managing such moments isn’t just about washing—it’s about soothing a mind convinced of catastrophe.Fear, Purity, and the Human Psyche
The fear of contamination is ancient. Germophobia, though clinically defined only in the last century, echoes humanity’s oldest anxieties around purity. Across civilizations, purity and impurity were moral categories as much as hygienic ones. In Hindu dharma, ritual baths in the Ganga cleanse not just dirt but spiritual pollution. In Islam, wudu (ablution) before prayer is both a physical wash and a spiritual reset. The Romans built elaborate baths not merely for hygiene but for symbolic renewal. Even in Christianity, baptism is a form of washing away contamination. What germophobia amplifies is this primal human obsession with purity. A bathroom towel mishap triggers a crisis that feels larger than hygiene: a rupture in moral or bodily sanctity. Anthropologists like Mary Douglas, in her seminal work Purity and Danger, argued that dirt is “matter out of place.” Towels are supposed to dry you; when a used one touches you, it becomes dirt out of place, collapsing the symbolic order. This explains why germophobic anxiety feels both irrational and deeply human. It taps into a collective subconscious where contamination is chaos and cleansing is redemption.
Learned Helplessness vs. Control in Germophobic Episodes
When someone with germophobia realizes they’ve touched the “wrong” towel, a sense of helplessness often follows. It’s not simply “I touched it,” but “Now I can’t undo it.” This mirrors the concept of learned helplessness in psychology: repeated exposure to uncontrollable situations trains the brain to stop resisting, sinking into panic or passivity. Control becomes the antidote. Washing, sanitizing, or scrubbing restores a sense of agency, even if the actual risk was negligible. The relief is not about germs being gone but about anxiety being silenced. Unfortunately, this cycle of fear–ritual–relief is the very loop that entrenches OCD. Each time one redeems sanitization through ritual, the brain learns: “My fear was valid, my ritual necessary.” Breaking this loop requires balance. Some ritual is fine—re-wash if it calms you—but learning to stop before compulsion takes over is essential. Without this balance, the wrong towel becomes the day’s defining catastrophe, trapping the sufferer in endless loops of washing.
Immediate Coping Strategies — Redeeming Sanitization
- So, what should you actually do after using a bathroom towel by mistake?
- Rewash Quickly if You Must: If the anxiety is overwhelming, take a short rinse. Make it deliberate, not frantic.
- Use a Sanitizing Step: Apply a light antiseptic body wash or sanitizer for hands if the towel touched limited areas.
- Reset Through Breath: After the ritual, sit and do three minutes of deep breathing. Inhale four counts, hold two, exhale six. This shifts the nervous system from panic (sympathetic) to calm (parasympathetic).
- Self-Talk: Remind yourself, “The towel is not a toxin. My skin is designed to protect me.” Cognitive reframing helps weaken catastrophic thinking.
- Stop the Spiral: Avoid repeating rituals. Once done, refuse the urge to wash again.
In practice, redeeming sanitization is less about scrubbing the body and more about calming the mind. Once control is asserted, the panic subsides.
Rituals Across Cultures That Mirror Germophobic Cleansing
What germophobic people feel today has long been expressed through cultural purification rituals. These serve as collective coping strategies for contamination anxiety.
- Islam: Ablution (wudu) before prayer, involving washing hands, mouth, nose, face, arms, head, and feet, resets not just the body but the spirit.
- Hinduism: Post-funeral baths symbolize washing away contact with death’s pollution. Daily ablutions in rivers sanctify the body before rituals.
- Judaism: The mikveh bath represents ritual purification after menstruation or impurity.
- Shinto in Japan: Water-based rituals (misogi) cleanse both physical and spiritual contamination.
- Christianity: Holy water at church entrances and baptism rituals frame cleanliness as rebirth.
These show that the desire to “redeem” cleanliness is ancient and widespread. The germophobic towel panic is, in a sense, a modern secular version of these timeless fears.
When Ritual Becomes a Trap
The danger arises when cleansing rituals stop being a relief and become prisons. Compulsive handwashing until skin cracks, multiple showers daily, bleaching towels after every touch—these behaviors worsen distress in the long run. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) for OCD emphasizes exposure and response prevention (ERP): facing small contamination events and resisting the ritual. For example, intentionally touching a shared towel, then waiting out the anxiety without washing, teaches the brain that disaster doesn’t follow. Over time, this weakens the contamination reflex. For germophobics, the bathroom towel incident is an accidental ERP. The challenge is to survive the panic without endless scrubbing. If achieved, it becomes a small victory. If not, it deepens the ritual trap.
Reframing the Towel Incident — It’s About the Mind, Not the Microbes
The final redemption lies in reframing. A towel may carry bacteria, but most are harmless. The danger isn’t infection—it’s interpretation. Germophobia magnifies risk into moral collapse. But just as cultures built rituals to soothe fear, individuals can build reframes:
“This towel does not undo my shower.”
“My skin protects me.”
“Cleanliness is in my care, not in my panic.”
Ultimately, it is less about sanitization and more about serenity. Redeeming oneself after the towel mistake is not washing harder but learning that the mind’s fear, not the fabric, needs cleansing.
Reflection
A germophobic panic over bathroom towels may seem absurd to outsiders, but it is the modern echo of humanity’s ancient battle with purity and contamination. From the Ganga to Roman baths, from wudu to chlorine, humans have always sought redemption after defilement. Germophobia simply personalizes it, amplifying one towel into a battlefield. The true exercise of redemption lies not in soap but in psychology. To redeem your sanitization is to accept that the body is resilient, the skin a fortress, and the mind capable of calm. The towel is not an enemy—it is a test. And every test survived is a step toward freedom from fear.
References
- University of Arizona towel bacteria study – https://uanews.arizona.edu/story/germs-love-damp-towels
- CDC – Hygiene and shared towel risks – https://www.cdc.gov/healthywater/hygiene/towels.html
- American Psychiatric Association – OCD contamination subtype – https://www.psychiatry.org/patients-families/ocd/what-is-obsessive-compulsive-disorder
- Mayo Clinic – Germophobia and compulsive behaviors – https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/ocd/symptoms-causes/syc-20354432
- Douglas, Mary. Purity and Danger – 1966
- WHO – Hand hygiene and cultural practices – https://www.who.int/publications/i/item/who-guidelines-on-hand-hygiene-in-health-care
- Harvard Health – Coping with OCD rituals – https://www.health.harvard.edu/mind-and-mood/when-to-worry-about-habits
- Islam – Wudu purification practices – https://sunnah.com/bukhari:159
- Hindu dharma rituals – https://www.sacred-texts.com/hin/index.htm
- Judaism – Mikveh bath purification – https://www.myjewishlearning.com/article/mikveh/
- Shinto purification (misogi) – https://www.britannica.com/topic/misogi
- Christianity – Baptism and holy water symbolism – https://www.catholic.com/encyclopedia/baptism
- Journal of Anxiety Disorders – ERP therapy for OCD – https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/
- NIH – Cortisol, stress, and rituals – https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5573739/
- Cognitive reframing in anxiety treatment – https://www.apa.org/monitor/2017/07/anxiety
- National Institute of Mental Health – Contamination fears – https://www.nimh.nih.gov
- British Journal of Psychology – Thought-action fusion – https://bpspsychub.onlinelibrary.wiley.com
- Indian Journal of Psychiatry – Rituals and contamination anxiety – https://journals.lww.com/indianjpsychiatry
- WHO – Obsessive compulsive behaviors in the global context – https://www.who.int/health-topics/obsessive-compulsive-disorder
- Scientific American – Why rituals reduce anxiety – https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/why-rituals-work/
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The Pandemic Fear was Inside our Home [when someone tests positive]
My father just got his first shot of the vaccine after waiting out his recovery from what has now become an integral part of our lives - the Coronavirus. While I was making a reminder of the date on which he would be getting his second shot, memories of the first couple of days when my father tested positive rushed in. This happened on April 17th, 2020 - last year. He had been feeling a bit heavy in the head for a few days, and like many folks, his mask-wearing etiquette was rather questionable. He has always been someone proud of his immunity, the fact that he played cricket from the school to club level despite all the hardships, and he would never take a sick leave from his workplace [CITIBANK - the CITI never sleeps]. He did not have the reserves of energy to collect the pathology report, and with my bits-and-piece knowledge about the healthcare genre, I was trusted to gather it and confirm that he wasn't infected - we were rather sure about it. My father, falling ill? A smart betting man would never invest in this preposterous theory!
A really bad attempt at rhyming during the Pandemic...
2021: when birthdays aren’t ‘Less’ than any reason to celebrate!
The emptiness outside screamed at us, but it was voiceless,
Lives that have been turned upside down, seem countless.
The perennial worriers are learning how to be fearless,
Life-from-home helped those reconnect who were faithless.
Masked people still try to look good despite being rendered faceless,
Keeping distances nurtured human connections but they were nameless.
As death came knocking in our neighborhood, the circus of life seemed pointless,
The poorest among us were those without friends and not those who were penniless.
While we try to forget what has happened during this time, finding ways not to get restless,The lessons learned and the memories created will forever remain priceless.
Beakers to Coffee Mugs - mini planters all over...!
Some Thoughts about Salads Not Getting Enough Mainstream Attention
A Little Bit About Salad History | Salad Evolution
While arguments continue over the Greek or Roman origins of the salad, it is perhaps in the Americas where the art of salad making, dressing, presenting, and consuming took on a more serious role. There are so many salad history books that were trending in the Americas more than 100 years ago and in today's comparison, it was like hash-tagging the salad, and celebrating every type of salad, ranging from the candle salad to the chef's special salad and salads so elaborate, it would not be wrong to refer to them as a main course or proper food! Through these stages of salad's evolution, something became a bit blurred, too. Salads were presented like the native salad, salads in a salad section, salads as a side dish, salad dressings, tossed-up fresh produce, and salads that came in a bowl, on platters, and those fortified with meats and things that were far, far away from being fresh from the farm or being herbal.
Did salad lose its originality while it slowly became more mainstream? People making enormous sandwiches started referring to the option of a salad dressing, taking away the very concept of the salad accompanying your meal. Today, the salad is no longer just a leafy green; it is also animated, colorful in the most shocking manner, and often, unbelievably expensive. But this is not about borrowing notes from a salad historian. This is about one aspect of salads that did not mature enough back then and even now - salads not being packed, retailed, and accepted as an on-the-go meal option, as a small tiffin, or as a mini-meal. While many have tried to do it, most have missed the mark, infusing too many spices, condiments, or flowing rivers of cheese in the final product. The leafy-green identity of the salad needs to be maintained. It can borrow shades of blood red from a goofy beetroot, but it cannot drip olive oil or creamy sauces. Finding some pieces of chicken in the salad bowl is a good thing, a bit of culinary adventure trip where the meat-finding equipment seems to find something in between the bites - some salad gold-digging that makes it all the more interesting.
All Salads are Not Created Equal | More Salad Culture Inputs
Perhaps All Cuisines Don't Warrant Proper Salads on the Side
I also believe that some cuisines are inherently drawn towards underplaying or building up the salad. For instance, oriental cuisines seem to have so much semi-fried and almost raw greens on the side. I have seen folks from this part of the world gulp down octopuses and shrimps and crabs dipped in animatedly red sauces, followed by a few bites of leafy greens on the side. Similarly, a lot of their steaming bowl preparations are naturally high in bringing together many types of greens, taking away the criticality of salads being served in a standalone manner. Compare this with the subcontinent, where the meals are high on starch and carbohydrates with lots of cereal, and it seems like salads are needed to ensure the fiber content of the meal and the alkalinity of the intestines is maintained.I am pretty sure that most people would not know about the five basic types of salads despite the information being easily available via an online search. The basic understanding is usually along the lines of salads in the form of tossed salads, salads with vegetables only, salads with fruits, and combination salads that can get very creative. A peep into salad culture also suggests that salads can be served throughout a main course meal, ensuring a more apt type of salad accompanies the main course or even the dessert! I believe that it is not about the lack of awareness about the role of salads from a nutritional and health care perspective or underselling it that keeps it away from becoming a routinely ordered or consumed food, at par with ordering a burger or getting a BBQ platter customized. It just hasn't been packaged well enough. Salads need to evolve and surpass the perception of being predictable.
Simplifying Salads to Make Them More Commonly Ordered and Explored
They need to be presented in a manner that makes it easy to consume the leafy mix from a box, even when catching up with a meal in the car or in the backseat of a cab. People often complain about the challenges of serving salads since so many ingredients need to be fresh, and this is where better preservation methods need to enter the picture to ensure that takeaway salad bowls and boxes can last for the entire day on the vendor's premises without fussing over the weather or the humidity levels. The perception of some traditional salad types, such as appetizer salads, also needs to be challenged. It is hard to find people who routinely gorge on salads before starting a lunch or supper - salads cannot be just a precursor to a traditional meal. Chefs and food vending brands need to start offering options like some bread or slices that can accompany each salad box to allow people to have some fun in creating their own salad-focused meals. Food bloggers could also talk a bit more about the cause of salads being termed in a simpler way, such as protein salads, seasonal salads, salad meals, high-fiber salads, and exotic salads. This just might help more people understand what they are about to order and take away the high-street aura of salads, easing the leafy greens into everyday lifestyles...
Why eating a heavy lunch at your workplace can backfire?
And let's not forget about poor nutrient absorption. When you shovel too much food into your face at once, your body can struggle to get all the good stuff it needs. That means you might end up lacking important nutrients, which can mess with your overall health. Last but not least, heavy meals can be like a VIP ticket to Chronic Diseaseville. If you're constantly indulging in meals packed with saturated fats, trans fats, and added sugars, you're increasing your risk of things like heart disease, type 2 diabetes, and certain cancers. So, let's bring it home to your workplace. Eating a heavy lunch there can backfire in more ways than one. First off, it's a one-way ticket to Snoozeville. You'll be fighting off the Zzz monster instead of tackling your tasks like a boss. Blame it on all that blood rushing to your stomach, trying to digest that massive meal. Talk about a buzzkill.
Then there's the discomfort and bloating. Picture yourself trying to focus in a meeting while feeling like you swallowed a watermelon. Yeah, not exactly a recipe for success. That stuffed feeling can make it hard to sit at your desk, too. It's like your stomach is staging a revolt, complete with gas and all. And let's not forget the weight gain. Stuffing your face with a ton of food can lead to extra pounds creeping up on you. And trust me, those pounds don't play nice. They bring along their friends, like obesity, diabetes, hypertension, and heart disease. You definitely don't want to party with that crowd.
Oh, and did I mention the afternoon energy crash? That heavy lunch can mess with your glucose levels, leaving you feeling like a deflated balloon. Good luck making smart decisions, staying focused, or keeping your cool. It's like your brain checked out early for a vacation, and it's leaving you to deal with the consequences. To avoid this lunchtime disaster, here's the deal: opt for a balanced meal with plenty of fruits, veggies, lean proteins, and whole grains. And hey, watch those portion sizes! Don't go overboard. It's also a good idea to have smaller meals throughout the day instead of one mega meal. That way, you'll keep your energy levels steady and avoid the chaos of a heavy lunch.
Things I can say with surety about these 'Perpetual Borrowers'....winners and sinners at the same time.
SO Hate Me for Carrying One…somewhere in my daily gear

This might sound contorted and tweaked in the most pessimistic way, but the opinionated demographic that I have repeatedly interacted with at workplaces suggests that this is by far the most common perception. A safety pin has been with me at various stages of my life, usually pinned into my schoolbag or college gear by my mom. What once started as an irritating habit that she could not let go of slowly turned into something I started associating with her. I have come across safety pins to be ultra-handy at my work desk, in everyday life situations, when traveling, and when preparing myself for a day of repairs at home. Still, the usual perception is skewed and unreasonable in the most comprehensive way. It seems like the work communities I'm talking about are inspired by how I relate a safety pin in my office drawer as a connecting medium with childhood memories and perhaps as a part of everyday life management. For me, it happens to be a very versatile tool. I have never been ashamed of spotting one in the depths of my office carry. The opinions associated with a man carrying it are the symptoms of a much larger problem. I would call them downstream symptoms of some things engraved in our mindset during our growing-up years. Is this about being urbanized or culturally well-endowed? Certainly not!

















